I was told recently that I should go into high schools and tell teenage boys not to go for the Dolly Bird but look for the Ideal Partner.”

The Ideal Partner, will stand by you when your chips are down, when you lose your job, when you suffer depression or have a nasty car accident or a heart attack.  The type of woman who thinks you are wonderful, defends you fiercely, is strongly loyal and demands that your children treat you with the utmost respect.

The key is to recognise that hidden treasure. She is harder to find. The secret is to practise drawing out every woman you meet. They won’t all be hidden treasures but if you practise drawing the best out in each woman, no matter how tired or impatient you are feeling after a hard day at the office, you will automatically draw out her hidden qualities.

The hidden treasure doesn’t boast about her good qualities, she needs man like you to draw her out. Good qualities are not worn on her sleeve like the dolly bird.

She may be shy and she will definitely be modest, therefore it’s up to you to be the outgoing one. Be a little more charming than you usually are. Make an effort to get her to laugh. Make it obvious that you are enjoying her company – but don’t overdo it.  Assume she wants to see you again and start making plans.

Shine – because when you shine so will she
Invite her to join you on activities that you do well. Rather than trying new things that you may not shine at initially, stick to your old favourites. A woman will be most impressed by your organisation, your expertise in whatever it is you like to do and especially your masculinity.

Women really enjoy the company of a man who can make her laugh
Assess the level of and her type of humour.  Find out what makes her laugh and add some humour into the conversation whether it’s on the phone or when you are together. Don’t be afraid to tease her a little, most women love the attention.

Notice her

Women love to be noticed. Notice what’s she’s wearing, how she does her hair and the colour of her lipstick. Remember the shoes she’s wearing.  The more you can remember about her and comment the better. Don’t mention everything at once, comments like this won’t go amiss: I like the shoes you’re wearing, I liked the red ones you were wearing last week too.

Draw her out
Such as “Tell me about your career”, “Tell me about your travels”, “Tell me about the cars you’ve owned”. Most jewellery has a story behind it; “Tell me about your jewellery” if she wears move than one item.

Let her know early that you are good at solving problems and fixing things
Women love asking for advice and many are not so good at fixing the car or the computer or the lawn mower. This is your opportunity to show her your expertise and DIY or knowing someone who can do it for you.

Find as many similar interests

This should go without saying. Foods, exercise, travels, music and movies.  Let her know she has good taste because it’s similar to yours.

Never leave a special woman without having set up the next meeting

Respect the fact that she has her own agenda and don’t invite her to join you tomorrow on the first few invitations. Allow a few days, not long enough to make her think she is a low priority, but not tomorrow because you must respect her agenda.

That ideal woman will have obligations to others. She is loyal to her friends and her commitments and won’t drop everything because she has just met you.  However, once you have recognised her and convey your appreciation, you will soon be an important item in her agenda.

At Entre Nous my introduction agency we recommend this book to women and suggest that you might like to know what women are reading: “Think Like A Man and Act Like A Lady” by Steve Harvey.

Rosalind Baker is the Principal and Founder of Entre Nous Introduction Agency Melbourne, Victoria, Australia, and author of 3 best sellers, Dial A Woman, Dial A Man and Dial A Personality To find out: Your Personality Type, or to find out “Are You Eligible” or “Are you ready for a relationship?” visit: www.singles.net.au

 

 

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About the Author:
BAKER (nee Neville) Rosalind Irene, Australian, born 16th June, Brisbane, Queensland. Married to Thomas A Baker with between them they have 6 children and  11 grandchildren.
Author: Dial a Woman, Dial a Man and Dial a Personality; numerous articles on relationships: www.entrenous.com.au/articles
Recreation: swimming, cycling, reading, writing and the Arts, Scrabble and backgammon.
Owner & founder, Entre Nous Introduction Service for professionals, Melbourne Australia 1991 – Director –
For more information, please contact: Rosalind Baker, Principal, Entre Nous
Telephone: (03) 9669 6000 Email: rb@entrenous.com.au
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