The approach is one of the toughest things to get over when you are a shy and quiet guy,  especially in the company of women.  If you find this to be a major sticking point,  then there are some techniques that you can apply that will help you to create “nerves of steel,” and have the confidence to walk up to a woman that you do not already know and be able to not just speak to her,  but to build attraction with her from the very start.

In my own experience,  the approach was one of the major sticking points for me,  and I had to get over it to really become successful at attracting women.  I mean,  you really limit yourself when you are not able to walk over to a woman that you think is sexy and attractive.  And that limitation will kind of make you feel worse about yourself,  and create even more areas that you need to work on.

Here’s 3 tips on how to approach women with the confidence that you need to make an impact on her:

1.  Walk with your head up and your body relaxed and comfortable.

Your body language and the way that you hold yourself isn’t just going to make an impact on the woman that you walk up to,  but it also has an impact on your physical state of being.  If you are walking over to a woman and your body is tense,  then what do you think you are going to feel when you are in front of her?  Probably tense.  And since she will kind of feed off of the feeling that you project,  she is going to feel tense as well.  You need to put yourself in a more comfortable and confident state,  and changing your body language can be key to doing this.

2.  Approach anxiety is ALL in your MIND.

It’s real,  well at least it seems real,  this I know.  The thing is,  there really is not a real reason to feel any anxiety about approaching a woman.  Your life is not in danger,  and most women are not going to be rude or anything, unless you are kind of rude in the way that you approach her.  So,  you have to realize that approach anxiety is a mind thing,  and you can gain control of this.

3.  Experience is the best “medicine.”

The more times that you approach women that you don’t know,  the easier it will become.  It may not be easy the first time,  or even the tenth time,  but after a while you will no longer put as much thought into approaching women.  You will just do it.  And when you are in that frame of mind,  then approaching women will no longer be a problem for you at all.

 

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