We all know what happens when you decide that you don’t want to wait, you want to go out and get a girlfriend NOW. You start to become a little too attached to the need, the desire that you have to get a girlfriend fast, and women start to sense that urgency emanating from you and they react like you have the bubonic plague. Seriously, when you are “desperate” to get a woman to date, you are sending out a signal to women EVERYWHERE that you have little to no social value.

And women LOVE a man that DOES have social value, so right there, you are creating a disconnection. The way to get a girlfriend fast is to learn how to not be attached to the desire, and instead do the things that attract women and you will end up getting what you want, which is a woman that you can date and no longer have to sit at home on a Friday night.

Here are 3 shockingly simple tips that will help any man (yes, that includes YOU) discover how to get a girlfriend:

1. Train yourself to change the way that you think about women.

Most guys that struggle to attract the women that they want to date have some seriously lopsided logic in how they think about and see women. You need to train yourself to see a woman for what she really is, and not what you want her to be. I’ll give you an example. I had a friend that was totally stuck on this one woman. To him, the moon and the sun all revolved around her. He thought she was pure as the driven snow and would do ANYTHING he could just to get a nod or a smile of approval from her. Truth be told, she was really just a pretty average girl. But, since he saw her as being so “perfect,” she became unobtainable to him.

2. Become a “master” of small talk with women.

Trying to come up with the right things to say and at the right times can be an intimidating thing for most men. However, when you focus only on creating small talk with women, it becomes a lot easier. I see that a lot of guys just put too much weight on having the need to have a scintillating conversation, that they make the whole thing out to be more than it has to. Talking to a woman should not be anything that makes you feel a TON of pressure, it should be EASY. When you focus on becoming a master of small talk with women, it makes it easier to build up to the point where you can go on and on with her, and not have any awkward moments.

3. Walk the walk if you want to attract a girlfriend.

The way that you hold yourself, the character that you project when you are around a woman through your body language and other physical cues will say a lot more than any single string of words that you put together. While it is important to be able to talk to women comfortably, you also need to know how to make her hear your body language. Now, that might sound a little weird at first, but you have to take into account that women are more intuitive of interpreting a guy’s body language and they will make a judgment based on that more than anything else.

 

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