Have you ever scratched your head in bewilderment, wondering how you managed to kill the attraction a guy felt for you, just when things were looking good? Did you ask yourself, “What did I do wrong?” Did you try to get him back, only to drive him further away? If this has happened to you, then you probably made a fatal mistake without even knowing it. What was the mistake? It could have been any number of things. See if you can relate to these ways girls often kill the attraction without even trying.

One thing many women don’t realize about male psychology is that guys are hesitant to commit to a relationship. In a girl’s mind, they are in 7th Heaven as a couple and her heart is set on a lasting commitment. When the guy isn’t forthcoming, she decides to take matters into her own hands and make him commit. Then it backfires. She panics and tries even harder and before she knows it, he is gone. Don’t try to force a guy into a commitment. Coax him along instead, if you don’t want to kill the attraction he already feels towards you.

Sometimes a girl tries too hard to please her man. She jumps when he says jump and sometimes even jumps when he doesn’t say jump. Instead of endearing herself to the guy, she does the opposite. He starts treating her like a doormat and instead of being thrilled to see her, he just get annoyed. Then, in desperation and panic, she just tries even harder. Before she knows it, he is in the arms of another woman and she is left broken hearted.

Then there’s the girl who starts taking her man for granted. She stops praising him for his accomplishments and instead starts nagging him about his faults. Before long, he feels like he can’t even breathe around her and so he walks out of the house for a breath of fresh air and never comes back.

Do any of these examples remind you of your behavior? If so, you know what to do. If you are the “doormat” type, then pull the mat out from under his feet! That will wake him up and make him realize what a catch he’s got. If you are a pleaser, stop pleasing him and start pleasing yourself for a change. If you’re a nagger, stop nagging. Remember why you love the guy and appreciate him for his good qualities and accept his faults.

Love is a balancing act. You have to love yourself and him equally for it to work. Lean too far in either direction and you will fall and kill the attraction, so be sure and keep everything in balance!

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