When most guys first go about learning how to approach women, they usually have a few places that are beyond their comfort zone or where they would normally think of to make an approach. Most men will immediately think about nightclubs and bars, and while these are great places to approach and meet women, they are not the only places that you should focus on. After all, there are a lot of beautiful women out there that don’t regularly go to clubs and bars, and you do not want to miss out on them, do you?

Here are 3 tips on how to approach women on the street or wherever else you might go:

1. Tone it down from what you would do in a club.

In a club or a bar, the music is usually pretty loud and distracting, there are lots of other guys there that are competing for the attention of the same women, it’s a whole different game than when you approach a woman on the street. And there are many times when you are on the street, that you are going to find a woman either by herself or with just one of her girlfriends, so that dynamic is a little different as well. This is why you should tone down your approach, because it will just kind of look weird if you use the same game you would in a club.

2. Make sure that you get her phone number before you walk away.

Approaching a woman on the street can be cool because she usually does not have the “game face” on, and so, she will be a lot more open and receptive to you. One thing that you cannot forget though, is to grab her phone number so that you can get the chance to hook up with her later. A lot of guys will kind of get thrown off their game when they are outside of the club and walk away without even grabbing a way to contact her later.

3. Make plans with her for later that night or the next day if you can.

I find that it can end up going a lot better if you make plans with a woman for the later that day or night if possible and at least the next day if you can when you approach her on the street. You want to keep things moving along while she is still into you, and the less time that you can put in between the first time you meet her and when you hook up for more fun later, the better.

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Women can be funny when it comes to dating. They want to meet a guy that knows what a woman wants, yet, they are usually not likely to actually tell you what they want. Sounds enough to make you go crazy, right? You try and try to figure out what a woman wants and how to make her like you, and the next thing you know, you are in way over your head and you don’t know what to do.

Thing is, there are some tips that can help you out. You have to get past the normal routine dating advice for men, and get to the stuff that really works like a charm to make a woman want you.

Here are 3 things women want you to know but will never tell you:

1. She does not want you to agree with *everything* she says.

A lot of men do this, and I can see why. You want to make sure that she likes you, and so, you do not want to say or do anything to jeopardize that. Problem is, when you agree with everything that she says, you begin to look a little boring to her. She knows that she is not perfect, and treating her like she is makes it dull and makes you look as though you will go along with anything just to win her approval.

2. Most women do not want to be placed on a pedestal.

Now, I will be the first to admit that there are some women that do, but they are pretty rare and you would not want to date them unless you want to wait on a girl night and day. And a lot of women will say that they wouldn’t mind, but the minute that you DO put her on a pedestal, things will get kind of “weird.” To make her want you, you need to be able to see her as being on the same level you are, and not make her out to be some perfect creature that can do no wrong.

3. She wants you to make the move on her.

One of the worst things that you can end up doing as a guy is to wait far too long to make your move on a woman. If you want to end up making her feel attracted to you, and not get placed in the friends category, then you have to be willing to make the move on a woman. And no, she probably will not tell you when the right time is, but she will drop a lot of “hints.” You need to be able to pick up on them and know when to go for it.

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Being able to walk up to a woman that you don’t know is a struggle that almost every man can identify with. For some reason, the very idea of being able to walk up to a woman, especially a gorgeous woman is enough to leave most guys feeling frazzled. You start to obsess over the things that you are going to say, and you don’t want to come off like a total goof to her, and next thing you know, the opportunity is gone and you did nothing about it.

Now, you feel even worse, because you know that until you get this part fo your life handled, your dating options are very limited. This is one of the biggest obstacles that you can face as a guy, but luckily, there are some tricks that you can use that will make approaching women seem a lot easier to you.

Here are 3 pick up tips that will make approaching a woman with confidence seem a lot easier:

1. You have to teach yourself not to care what she thinks of you.

This can be one of the hardest things to get yourself to do, but when you really get to the point where you don’t care about whether or not she rejects you or feels like you are a goof, you will start to gain confidence. Detaching yourself from caring about what a woman thinks of you is the best thing that you can do. When you don’t focus on what she might think of you, it becomes pretty easy to just walk on over to her and start a conversation.

2. Open up your “net.”

Guys tend to end up putting all of their focus on one woman. For example, when you go to a club and there is one woman that catches your eye early on, you usually will end up just focused on her the entire night. Well, where do you think all of that pressure comes from? You need to be able to focus on more than one woman, so that it does not seem like the end of the world if you don’t end up with the first one that catches your eye.

3. Make her want to win YOUR approval.

Most guys are going to try hard to impress a woman. They think that they have to be “on,” and that it is their job to make the good impression. Now, obviously that will make you feel a TON of pressure, right? Well, what if you did what the experts at dating and picking up women did and make her want to win YOUR approval. The pressure comes off and now the shoe is on the other foot.

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We all know what happens when you decide that you don’t want to wait, you want to go out and get a girlfriend NOW. You start to become a little too attached to the need, the desire that you have to get a girlfriend fast, and women start to sense that urgency emanating from you and they react like you have the bubonic plague. Seriously, when you are “desperate” to get a woman to date, you are sending out a signal to women EVERYWHERE that you have little to no social value.

And women LOVE a man that DOES have social value, so right there, you are creating a disconnection. The way to get a girlfriend fast is to learn how to not be attached to the desire, and instead do the things that attract women and you will end up getting what you want, which is a woman that you can date and no longer have to sit at home on a Friday night.

Here are 3 shockingly simple tips that will help any man (yes, that includes YOU) discover how to get a girlfriend:

1. Train yourself to change the way that you think about women.

Most guys that struggle to attract the women that they want to date have some seriously lopsided logic in how they think about and see women. You need to train yourself to see a woman for what she really is, and not what you want her to be. I’ll give you an example. I had a friend that was totally stuck on this one woman. To him, the moon and the sun all revolved around her. He thought she was pure as the driven snow and would do ANYTHING he could just to get a nod or a smile of approval from her. Truth be told, she was really just a pretty average girl. But, since he saw her as being so “perfect,” she became unobtainable to him.

2. Become a “master” of small talk with women.

Trying to come up with the right things to say and at the right times can be an intimidating thing for most men. However, when you focus only on creating small talk with women, it becomes a lot easier. I see that a lot of guys just put too much weight on having the need to have a scintillating conversation, that they make the whole thing out to be more than it has to. Talking to a woman should not be anything that makes you feel a TON of pressure, it should be EASY. When you focus on becoming a master of small talk with women, it makes it easier to build up to the point where you can go on and on with her, and not have any awkward moments.

3. Walk the walk if you want to attract a girlfriend.

The way that you hold yourself, the character that you project when you are around a woman through your body language and other physical cues will say a lot more than any single string of words that you put together. While it is important to be able to talk to women comfortably, you also need to know how to make her hear your body language. Now, that might sound a little weird at first, but you have to take into account that women are more intuitive of interpreting a guy’s body language and they will make a judgment based on that more than anything else.

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Why you should still date after 50? What kind of a question is that? You should date after 50 because it’s FUN. If you’re worried that you may not be as attractive now as you were when you were 20, stop right now. You are surely attractive in another way. Your mature, secure – financially and emotionally, and don’t have to worry about having or taking care of kids. If you’re sitting around worrying about what you look like, so is your potential date. And then there’s the question, why shouldn’t people over 50 date. 50 is the new 30, right? Do you know a lot of single 30 year olds that don’t want to date? But here are a three more reasons to date after 50, if those aren’t good enough:

Because you’re alone now. Maybe you like it? Maybe you like parties by yourself….being the only single at a dinner party of 7….going for Sunday afternoon drives alone…..but most people don’t. A great majority of boomers are divorced or widowed and would welcome a companion. Companionship is a great reason for dating. People are social animals. And there are lots and lots of boomers out there looking for a date. The fastest growing demographic in this country is people 50-54. The second fastest growing group is people ages 45-49. Companionship is not the only reason. Intimacy is not to be overlooked after 50. Remember, you’re not dead yet. Many senior citizens are sexually active into their 80’s! You’re not getting any younger. Why sit around alone on Saturday night when there’s somebody out there for you?
Because you can: over 20 million people visit dating sites every month, not every year, EVERY MONTH. Surely, there will be ONE person out of that 20 million who might be for you. And there are 97 million single Americans who are aged 45 or older. Almost 40% of these people are in the same boat as you – they’re single. Of course, you can always hit up your local bar, decide to take ballroom dancing in the hopes of meeting somebody, or start checking out the singles over 50 at your place of worship. Maybe you’re sister’s best friend is suddenly single too.
Being in a relationship, or being married, is healthy and makes good economic sense. Married people are less lonely, anxious and depressed than singles. A recent survey reported that over a third of the men and women in their 50s had not been hugged or kissed in the past six months. That can’t be good for you! Swedish studies show that married people or people who live together in relationships are less likely to develop cancer, or have heart attacks. Being in a relationship is associated with a lower risk of developing dementia. It’s not true that two can live as cheaply as one. But two CAN live as cheaply as one and a half! Married women make, on the average $6,000 a year more than single women. That’s certainly nice for the guy she’s married to as well as for her. And people in relationships have sex two to three times a week. Perhaps that speaks for itself in the category of fun activities.

So really, what are you waiting for? You can get warm and comfy in your sweats and hang out with a beer and the computer and find a date online if you don’t feel like getting out and about yet. And clearly, the people you find on online dating sites, are looking for love as well.

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If you really want to know how to seduce women, you need to realise that it’s all about how you can make a woman feel when you’re around them. The easiest way you can seduce a woman is to flirt as much as possible with them. So let’s cover a few little known flirting tips you can use right now to seduce women.

Firstly, when talking to a woman, don’t just smile and nod your head in agreement with everything she says. Give her a little smirk, and squint your eyes in a seductive manner. The woman in question will instantly know you’re flirting with her and should respond back with a shy smile or a bite of the lip if she’s interested in you.

Another cool seduction tip is to flirt with the woman using the technique above, and being attractive around her. You can achieve this by being confident and and also by using humour in your conversations.

When your conversation is finished, say goodbye and hug her for around 2-3 seconds. Then, at the end of that hug, simply pull away a little, smile at her and hold her eye contact. If she looks at you, holds your eye contact and smiles back, go for a kiss.

If she pulls away when you go for the hug technique then she isn’t really interested in you, and you should not continue with it.

There are lot’s more tips you cans use to seduce women that we haven’t covered in this article, which you can discover by downloading our free 55 page report from our website below, but the above are perfect for trying out on a woman when you’re out on the town next.

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OK, Let’s all admit it … First dates can be, well — kinda awful!

It’s not that you don’t like the girl you’re on the date with, and it’s not that you don’t want toHAVE the date at all… 

It’s that first dates can feel tense, awkward, pressured, and downright stressful sometimes. 

And to tell you the truth … I used to REALLY not have fun on a lot of first dates. 

Can you relate to any of this? Have you ever felt like this about first dates? 

So what’s going on here?

Well there is something that happens on a large numbers of first dates that really set a first date up for FAILURE (or at least make it as difficult as possible to have a great time)

So now let’s get back to talking about what can really KILL any potential for success on a first date. 

What do you usually plan for a first date? I mean, where do you usually take your dates on a first date? 

Hmmm… Let me guess…

Dinner? (and maybe a movie)

Putting aside the issue of this being a total cliché, it’s also about the WORST option you can choose for a first date. 

And here’s why… 

Actually, let me ask you a question first. 

Why on earth would you take someone out for dinner on a first date … unless of course the woman is homeless and she needs a good meal? 

To sit across from somebody and watch them chew down food while you tell each other the same stories you’ve told a hundred times is boring! 

(It is also a cliché … Well, it is — so I had to say it even though I said I wouldn’t…)

The reason why most of us don’t enjoy dating is because we go out on dinner dates. 

Now granted, having dinner with someone is fantastic when you’re with a person whose company you enjoy and with whom you already have some sort of relationship. 

There’s one BIG difference though on a first date — Think about whether this is true or not … 

(and I’m betting for you, like most of us, it is) 

Being forced to sit at a table exchanging resumes with a total stranger is the reason why most of us don’t like to date, but yet we still conduct dinner dates. 

So what are the alternatives to the boring clichéd dinner date?

Now before you get ready for me to bust out a numbered ”Top Ten Things To Do Instead Of A Dinner Date” lists, though, it’s NOT because I think we have been ‘top 10 listed’ to death on the Internet. 

PLUS… 

It’s really time YOU figured out what YOU like to do, and also listened to what the person you’re interested in likes to do, so you can come up with clever dates. 

Don’t worry, though, cause I am going to help get your thinking started and I am going to give you examples of some of the things I like to do. 

By doing that, it will help you so you can make up your own personal list. 

***DAVID’S FAVORITE FIRST DATES***

I like to check out new neighborhoods by walking around and checking out the stores. (That’s one of my favorite first dates). 

I like to do dragio – which is hiking and dragging my lazy dog up the hill. This is a great first date to just talk and enjoy the outdoors. 

I enjoy going to art galleries. 

I like to walk along the beach. 

I enjoy going to fun coffee and tea shops and sampling new teas. 

These are some of the things that I enjoy doing. So when I have a first date, I listen to what they like — then what I do is make the date fun. 

You do this because, if you think about it, when you do get into a relationship with someone you will not spend every evening exchanging resumes over dinner. 

You’re going to be doing things you both enjoy. 

By picking something more interesting than dinner for a first date, you are also giving each other fun things to talk about while you’re shoppi ng together… 

OR walking on the beach together… OR going to Target together… OR doing WHATEVERmight be fun for you… 

The reason why so many of us don’t like to date is because it is so formal. 

Dinner dates are formal and boring. You spend the night evaluating each other, then you come home and you’re evaluating each other some more with your friends. 

Activity dates are fun and memory-building.

(And any of you who are familiar with what I teach know how important I believe it is for you to be memorable in life …) 

So instead of asking all of you to make a list of 50 great dates, I would like to have you concentrate on thinking of great first date ideas that YOU enjoy… 

So now, unless you are dating a homeless woman who really needs to be fed, it’s time to get creative in your dating!

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Meeting men online is a great option for any age at any period of your life. It doesn’t matter whether you are young and busy starting a career or older and tired of the bar scene, there are men online that will be a match for you and there are other reasons that it will benefit you as well.

There is a lot more free time on dating sites. You can search at any time of day or night and you can even search for people in your hometown area if you are on the other side of the world! That’s one of the beautiful things about being online.

Now, we’ve all been through the dating scene. You meet a guy and don’t know much about him but there seems to be an attraction so you agree to a date.

You go out for a date and find out that he’s a jerk, arrogant, or just not your type and sometimes it takes a few dates or even weeks to find that out! With online dating sites that nonsense has less chance of happening to you.

Online dating profiles are filled with information about likes and dislikes, personal preferences, and pictures of your prospective men. The first date impression is laid out for you to look at and read.

You can take your time and go through the profiles and pictures and make a selection on those traits instead of just instant attraction like the offline way of meeting someone.

This will weed out the guys of different beliefs or needs and guys that just don’t seem right for you.

Then you can contact them and get a feel for how they talk and think. Some dating websites have videos as well which gives you an extra insight into them and their body language and personality.

The great thing about this is you don’t have to leave your house and get ready for a date yet. No shaving your legs, no stressing about conversation, no shopping for the perfect outfit, and no wondering how you are going to get out of it if it goes bad.

If you don’t like them then you end contact. Simple as that.

These dating websites are full of people. In fact there are millions of people on some dating sites right now. That is a slightly bigger pool of guys than your average bar which means more chance of you meeting someone who is compatible.

I’m sure you will have a reason of your own if you try it so find out for yourself how online dating can benefit you and remember that if you don’t try it you will never know.

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Relationships are tricky little things and need to be handled with care. Most times we become jaded in the relationship and forget to show the guy that we are with that we care. Here is what you need to do to show a guy that you do care about him.

Don’t cut him down
One of the ways to show your guy that you care for him is by simply not cutting him down. You might feel that what he is saying is completely irrelevant and it’s your job to correct him but leave the correcting for later when you are likely to be less harsh.

Appreciate him
A man needs appreciation and most of the time we forget to give him just that. When you want to show a guy that you care you need to show your appreciation towards him. Be vocal about the things that you like about him in the same way as you are about the things that you don’t.

Understand him
Men function quite differently than women and have a very different coping mechanism. Women don’t get that most of the time and end up being the villains that don’t understand anything. So try and show the guy you care by understanding him and making an effort to understand what he is doing and why he is doing that.

Give him freedom
Don’t make your relationship a maximum security prison. Give your man some freedom to do what he wants. He should feel free in it to say what he wants to do. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean that you have to be joined at the hip. Sometimes caring for a person involves letting him be without you.

Do simple and sweet things for him
If you need to show a man you care then you need to do simple and sweet things for him. It could be finding out how to cook his favorite meal or digging through a lot of junk to retrieve his favorite records and getting it converted to a CD. Show him the kind of effort you are making to see him happy and he will know that you care.

Encourage him
Another way to show a man that you care is to do so by encouraging him. If he’s feeling down and out or if he’s going through a rough patch stand by his side and show him that you care.

Be sexy – for him
Lastly, men love it when the women they are with are sexy for them. So get the drive back and make him feel wanted and cared for.

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Sometimes you just want to be sure that the guy you like wants to date you. But how can you be sure before you invest in him emotionally. Here are the signs that will indicate that he wants to date you.

He will make time for you
We all have extremely busy schedules and crazy busy lives. In this manic fast paced life we only make time for those things that mean something and make a difference to us. So if you find your guy taking out time for you and making space for you in his life then he intends to begin dating you.

He will increase his physical contact
When a guy is interested in dating you he will start by wiping off the borders and parameters that define the existing relationship. If he wants to date you then he will get a lot more physical with you. He will hold your hand or hug you or sit closer to you for no apparent reason.

He will introduce you to his friends
If your guy begins to introduce you to his friends then you can be sure that dating you is on his mind. He is trying to gauge how well you fit into his life and how do you like his friends and people who mean a lot to him.

His manner will change with you
If you have been friends for a while then you will notice a distinct change in his behavior. He will look for ways to spend more time with you and will always look for your approval. Even in a room full of women his eyes will be on you. If this happens then you should know that he wants to date you.

He will try to please you
When he wants to date you he will try and make all efforts to please you. So you’ll find him doing small yet very significant things for you. He will go to any length to impress you and to make you see him as more than a friend.

He will always be there for you
You will notice that he will always be there for you. He will be there when you are happy, he will celebrate your joys and will lend you his shoulder when you are sad.

He will try to make you smile…always
When his main agenda with you becomes seeing you smile then you should be sure that he wants to date you. So laugh at his jokes and start giving him hints that you are available.

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